tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post9198728209009068720..comments2024-01-21T11:05:40.120+05:30Comments on Chronicles of an arranged Indian marriage: Finding my voicerunawaybridehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-76633947716040540032015-07-29T15:51:43.642+05:302015-07-29T15:51:43.642+05:30Get connected to sengunthar community marriage see...Get connected to sengunthar community marriage seekers on <a href="http://www.matchfinder.in/caste/sengunthar-matrimony" rel="nofollow">sengunthar matrimony</a> on MatchfinderAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02877160051357397353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-51975804661278516602014-10-13T16:44:55.209+05:302014-10-13T16:44:55.209+05:30Why do i personally not know girls like you ! It w...Why do i personally not know girls like you ! 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Can't wait for more :)Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08000944324176994600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-71227022820203911412011-01-18T10:52:09.811+05:302011-01-18T10:52:09.811+05:30@ Merrymusing : Thanks.@ Merrymusing : Thanks.runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-11454424218618690942011-01-17T15:47:44.631+05:302011-01-17T15:47:44.631+05:30I really like the way you hit the truth home hard ...I really like the way you hit the truth home hard :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-89233801722289241812011-01-17T01:00:42.435+05:302011-01-17T01:00:42.435+05:30@Louba: Would you believe me if I said that my mou...@Louba: Would you believe me if I said that my mouth went open when i read this! Glad that I made the move to say SEX!runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-79415278026376113782011-01-15T04:23:08.655+05:302011-01-15T04:23:08.655+05:30Hi - I found your blog through Caterpillar's l...Hi - I found your blog through Caterpillar's link adn I'm loving reading it. If I mentioned sex in front of my dad he would pass out! That's even though I'm in my thirties and living with my partner :)Loubahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17549035547694951182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-47651864054309719102011-01-13T23:04:30.119+05:302011-01-13T23:04:30.119+05:30Oh my... I so honored.. Thank you!Oh my... I so honored.. Thank you!runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-362748341072012702011-01-13T20:52:57.432+05:302011-01-13T20:52:57.432+05:30Man...your parents must have really pestered you h...Man...your parents must have really pestered you hard for you to have said that....lol....well, good thing they decided to quit nagging. Also, I've passed on the Stylish Blogger award to you over at my blog... :)caterpillarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16929070939893449116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-79655588605353655032011-01-13T18:46:06.362+05:302011-01-13T18:46:06.362+05:30@RS: Thank You!@RS: Thank You!runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-31045199773587157292011-01-13T18:10:55.249+05:302011-01-13T18:10:55.249+05:30either way i wish u all the best in lifeeither way i wish u all the best in lifeRShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00785298637011322364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-40331909973389876842011-01-13T14:50:51.877+05:302011-01-13T14:50:51.877+05:30@ Mad Fat Girl: Ha Ha Ha... You never can.. That i...@ Mad Fat Girl: Ha Ha Ha... You never can.. That is why some of them find an alternative - their drivers or watchmen.LOL...runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-71607548241333878872011-01-13T14:44:15.017+05:302011-01-13T14:44:15.017+05:30@RS: Hi there...
Arranged marriage has a lot of go...@RS: Hi there...<br />Arranged marriage has a lot of good sides to it as also bad sides. I guess it varies from culture to culture and family to family. Not just Asia, even in Medieval Europe there were arranged marriages especially between the royal families of England, France, and Spain and there was dowry also. And I believe that the success of any marriage depends on the individuals and not on the way they married. Once married, its an entirely different life.runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-35717326244539683062011-01-13T14:35:29.828+05:302011-01-13T14:35:29.828+05:30@Nikki: I know its not always easy. But then when ...@Nikki: I know its not always easy. But then when pushed to the extreme, anybody can become firm and bold.<br /><br />@Maria: That guy did look really bad. Even I'm mean here, but can't help. <br /><br />@Shruthi: I shall try your dialogues one after the other in the coming situations. And I feel there's going to be more suchsituations, looking at the photos of these men. <br /><br />@C N Nevets: I am basking in the glory of my brilliance now. ;-)runawaybridehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13594219417694974120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-23971251864918914092011-01-13T13:59:28.641+05:302011-01-13T13:59:28.641+05:30HAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAH! Good for you!! I cant stop la...HAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAH! Good for you!! I cant stop laughing at the impotence threat :P <br /><br />But yea, I sometimes wonder how the whole arranged marriage thing worked/works! How can you sleep with someone when you are going "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW grossssssss!" in your head?? I'm so glad you stood up to your parents and I hope they stay off your back for a while.Sassy Asshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01302394612860896182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-77501666426777796012011-01-13T11:09:41.586+05:302011-01-13T11:09:41.586+05:30I've to say, this is very interesting. Times h...I've to say, this is very interesting. Times have changed and although arranged marriages CAN work in some societies, a lot of 'modern' circumstances don't really allow it to flourish like they did back in the days.<br /><br />I'm a Malaysian and not too long ago, arranged marriages were a norm. Girls got married as young as 13 or 15, but they weren't unhappy about it as perceived by the west. It was a norm and girls grew up wanting to be married and they were very cultured and disciplined therefore could take on household duties almost immediately into the marriage. <br /><br />A lot of people in the west view arranged marriages as a bad thing, as an oppressive and orthodox thing of the past. But, I think if carried out in the right circumstances, it may work.RShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00785298637011322364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4791131393015207654.post-65098471224166208682011-01-13T08:47:21.265+05:302011-01-13T08:47:21.265+05:30haha That's brilliant.
And it's fantastic...haha That's brilliant.<br /><br />And it's fantastic that you stood up for your standards.C. N. Nevetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00375714948653196993noreply@blogger.com